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Question: Hello Jack, Well my question is simple. I am Hispanic and I love white women. I want to get married to a white woman and have babies with her. The place that I come from has very few white women and I myself do not know any. How do I go about it using the
Law of Attraction? Please help. Thanking you, K.R.
Jack's Answer: Hello K.R.
First let me stress for the benefit of the people
reading this that the terminology is yours and not
mine. Secondly let me assure you that yours is not
as big a problems as you probably think it is. Don't
worry about how its going to happen. The 'how' is
not your concern. Your job is to get clear about
the 'why'. If the 'why' is big enough the 'how'
will take care of itself and the Universe will
arrange itself for you. I strongly suggest that
you enrol on my free
eCourse
and follow all the steps I teach you there. If you
do, then the woman of your dreams
WILL
come into your life, no doubt about it! She is
looking for you right now but there are certain
things you need to
do to make it
happen and I explain what those things are in the
course.
Question: Hello Jack. Since last year I have been a Letting Negotiator working in
Hull, England. However in August, I saw a job advertised on the internet for a similar position to my current job only with better pay. So
I subsequently applied. They had me for an interview the very next day, and within an hour of my interview they called me up and
offered me the job. I worked my two weeks notice at my job in Hull, and started my new job on the 20th September. On Tuesday 28th September a close friend of my
new boss came into the office and asked to see if
there was a job going. They arranged to go out for tea
and a chat, that very night. My day off was a
Wednesday. I got a phone call on Wednesday morning from my boss, stating
I was no longer needed as she was sacking me. I hadn't
done anything wrong, had no warnings or anything. I
haven't got a contract of employment. Am I entitled to claim for wrongful dismissal or loss of earnings,
seeing as I resigned from my old job to take up this new role? It seems very wrong that a firm can just sack me like that after resigning from a good job, to come to them, and doing nothing wrong. Is
there anything
I can do? Harneiss
Jack's Answer: Hello Harneiss. What
a bummer! Firstly I must stress that I am
not qualified to offer legal advice. If you
are considering suing you need to get qualified
legal advise, or at the very least, well meaning
advice from the
Citizens
Advice Bureau, but don't mess about, go and
see a solicitor. You could also swallow your
pride, talk to your previous employer, explain
what has happened and ask for your old job
back.
You are adamant that you did nothing
wrong but is that really true? Did you really do the
very best
job you could possibly do? Now I have a reputation
for being blunt so here goes. If you wrote to the company's
customers the same way you just wrote to me, full
of spelling mistakes and capitalisation errors, I
would sack you too (what appears above is my cleaned
up, corrected version of what you wrote). You really must get into the habit
of giving your very best in every moment, regardless
of what activity you are engaged in. When you have
mastered that, start going the extra mile (all
explained in depth in my free
eCourse).
Then consider whether being sacked
realty was a bad thing in your life. I know it
looks that way now but five years from now, when
you look back, you may see how it fits into a
bigger pattern. No guarantees but it often happens
that way. Back in the 1980s I was starting to
learn the principles I now teach. I was doing my affirmations
and my visualisations every day. At the time I had
a dead end job earning 200 pounds a week in Kent.
I clung to that crappy job so hard because I had
nothing else. I had just lost the relationship of
a lifetime too and that played on my mind so much
it affected my work and eventually I got the sack.
I was devastated!!! I had lost everything. Well almost
everything, I did have a new girlfriend. I wasn't
really ready for a new relationship but she was
very kind and understanding and was helping me a
lot. In fact she taught me most of this Law of
Attraction stuff although we didn't call it that
then. Looking back, meeting that woman was
probably the best thing that ever happened in my
life.
The downside was that she lived in
East London, an hour and a half from where I was
in Kent. When I told her I had been sacked and
could no longer afford to make the long journey to see
her, see insisted I cut my expenses in half by moving into
her flat. "We will manage somehow" she
said. Although this country boy hated the idea of
moving to a filthy (in those days) inner
city slum, I accepted her offer.
Walking through the High Street
one day we came across a rundown indoor market
with a booth to let. We thought, "let's give
it a go". It cost me all my severance pay
(one month's wages) to rent that small booth and stock it
with perfumery items, bath candles, potpourri, and
that kind of stuff. Anyway in that dirty, smelly
area it was a knockout. Soon we moved into bigger premises.
To cut a long story short, that was my start in
life and had it not been for the two biggest disasters
of my life in quick succession, none of it would
have happened.
I don't know whether you are intentionally
using the Law of Attraction (LoA) and doing any affirmations
and visualisations but if you are, this disaster
may just be your gateway to your new life, as it
was for me. The thing about the Law of Attraction
is that it is always working, every second, whether
you are intentionally using it or not. If you are
thinking about what you don't want (worrying) then
the LoA will bring you whatever you are worrying
about. However if you are working the LoA deliberately,
if your predominate thoughts are about the life
you do want, this apparent disaster may just be
clearing the decks for something very much better.
Christians tend to say "The Lord moves in mysterious
ways, his wonders to behold". Whether you
prefer to say 'The Lord', The Universe', 'The Is',
'The God and Goddess' or whatever, that is a very
true saying. Again all this is explained in great depth in my free
Course.
I hope it all works out for you, Jack.
Question: Hi Jack I am very much new to the
Law of Attraction, so my question is very basic. Can
I use the LoA for some one else? If I think good for someone else will it happen? I want to help my brother because
I love my brother very much. He is having problems finding a job. He thinks positively and practically, I mean
materialistically. Unless otherwise there is a
chance of hope he
won't feel gratified (like most
people). How can I help my brother? Thanks, Shar
Jack's Answer: Hello Shar, This is
one of those thorny questions. Using the Law of
Attraction for other people is not really such a
good idea. Apart from the ethical question, LoA
does not really work that way. Thoughts lead to
inspired actions which lead to results. How can
your thoughts lead to his inspired action? Of
course your thoughts can lead to your inspired
action. If you use the Law of
Attraction to attract ideas you can use to help
your brother that should be ok, that should work.
You can help your brother in so many ways. You
can help him boost his self-confidence by the way
you treat him and speak to him. You can give him
practical help by looking for jobs with him and
helping him improve his C.V. All that kind of stuff
will really help. Probably the most important
thing you can do is tell him about the Law of
Attraction and explain to him how, what he thinks
and feels, will have a direct effect on the
results he gets in his life. Share my free
Course
with him or better still, invite him to register
for it himself. My very best wishes, Jack
